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1938 - 2016

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Hi pop, its been around 6 years now or 5 1/2. I no longer believe in god. Im not exactly sure why but I just lost faith. Last year and the summer of this year were the hardest moments of my life so far. It doesnt feel like 6 years, it doesnt even feel like a month. The realization I had on the 20th changed me. You cant turn back time. You cant forget or change the way you look at memories. Even though I do not believe in god, I still pray to something that maybe my life will get a little better. I dont want to grow up anymore. I cry my eyes out every night because I dont know what to say, think, or do anymore. Im dont want to disappoint mom or my friends but I feel so cornered right now, I feel like I dont have a choice. Mom has gotten sick and I dont want to complain to her and whenever I make her upset I feel so guilty and horrible. At this point the only thing I have is my cat. I have tried to join you many times, I still want to join you but at the same time I also want to live.

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Sunday August 21, 2022 at 7:51 pm

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